At Home Desperate get their Deck Mate brand coated deck screws. They have a bugle head on them and won't split the wood as easily as long as you stay away from using them close to the end of the piece of wood. The coating on them keeps rust away for a long time. I've had some out in the weather for several years without rusting.
They do use a different style of driver bit, although a new bit (sometimes two) comes in each box. The bit looks similar to a large phillips bit. It has a larger center that can allow the use of a square drive bit, if not too much pressure is applied to the driver.
I've had real good success using these screws. They are hard to break, and don't strip out the head as easily as a lot of the other screws available. I installed cabinets for a shop for years and the best screws I ever used are not available to the public, as far as I've ever been able to determine. However these Deck Mate screws come in a very close second on durability, and I'm very picky about screws that I use.
Don
Don