Not trying to insult you but I'm going to try and explain how the relay and system operate. So to start with the big red wire is the power wire and it needs to be big as the glow plugs draw around 155amps. The stud right next to it separated by the little plastic wall is the wire with the fusible links which goes to the glow plugs. The small wires in the plug in terminal are the control wires for the relay. The pink wire should be hot when the key is on, the black wire is a ground wire, the yellow wire is grounded by the PCM to activate the glow plug relay. When the relay gets activated it makes the loud click you hear and then the small wires, with the fusible links on them, will be hot.