Got some answers about the reality today! I visited a friend who works with ir thermo photographing, and had him shoot a picture of my engine valley:

I also shot a pic of my temp gauges at the same time as he was doing the photos to compare:
Im afraid all the temps here are in C, but it works for an European like me!

The good thing about this exercise was that I was able to verify that my gauges seems to measure pretty correctly. I have a temp probe at one of the injectors that matched what he could measure at the same point. The coolant probes I have down on the frame where my filters are seems to be in the range of what he measured as well. The bad thing was that as he measured the temps, just after I had arrived after 15mins on the highway including a long incline, the highest temp we could read was 80C.
I got a tip on a Norwegian 6.5 Facebook group that the local us car parts dealer had some special thermostats for 6.5s that wouldn't´t get up to heat properly. It seems to be a common problem here in the cold. I went to the store, and it turned out to be Stant 13359 thermostats. I´m a bit sceptical to them as they are not recommended by anyone else in the world, but I went ahead and bought the pair as they weren't very expensive (just 2 times rock auto...
sigh), so I figure it´s worth a try to see if they could make me happier.
As for fuel pressure, the new wonderful software gave me better readings!

I seem to have between 2,5 and 4 at the IP inlet at the moment, depending on the load. When I really give throttle in inclines, it drops down to 1-1,5, and a couple of times, I´ve seen it down at 0,somethingsmall. I´m thinking I´m gonna try to plump in the acdelcos in series again, and see what the readings will be now that ´ve done the complete FTB mod