Do some research and find out how soon the trans dies if you just ignore it. I have a friend here that is so proud of a Toyota he owns with 350,000 miles on it. He keeps all the records of it, including air added to tires. I got him to let me sit down with him and add up costs of all maintaining he has done. Over $22k. Not Repairs when something broke, just maintenance. Another $13,500 for that. Would have been better to ignore it all, then drop in new crate engine and trans every 150k.
Keep in mind the manufactures have to appease the dealerships in trying to get them more return work for the customers. Is more maintenance a bad thing, no. But is it always the best ROI, no.
My 01 suburban with a 6.0 has had the A/C redone when it ate a compressor on a trip through Arizona at around 125k, or 150k. Brake pads. Oil changes at 10,000 miles-ish , more like 15,000 over the last 4 times. By misunderstanding a guy did a trans filter at around 200k, when I just wanted engine oil, filter and fuel filter. 1 alternator, belt tensioner, and a battery every 5 years or so. Tires. idk, maybe new spark plugs might get me back the .25 mpg loss it has at 205k on the clock compared to when I bought it with 22k on it, but I think that is more the tires having better traction. The money I would have spent doing everything recommended by the mfr/ dealer especially if I paid labor, would rival my friends costs. Instead I'll just ride this horse into the ground, kick it once, and walk away money ahead.
I care about my Hummer and plan to keep it WAY longer than I should, so I waste the money to try to stretch out it's life because I wont be able to find a replacement in 20-25 years. For just a dd car though that doesn't fall into your "dream car" category I say whip it like a rented mule and spend the $ on things you really love to do.