Your going to have to piece it as you go using parts from other vehicles, we can't give you a list of what's needed when various parts are going to be used like this.
The adjustable throw out bearing I use was the best thing ever, it gives instructions for the same measurement and no tool needed other than a straight edge and tape measure... I made a adjustable push rod at the petal that also worked great... Several folks here have done it and they told me...
This stuff comes in a caulk tube, easy to place but hard to remove and you can squish it out like mashing a valve cover down .. I think the right stuff would work also...
And I like what you're doing, I might copy it some day...
Sounds like something may be wrong...
I have a "all on" headlight also, only it's not the cheap stuff some are selling now. Mine is a complete wiring harness with 2 relays that are connected to the battery not the light switch like OEM or some other harnesses.
I can and have run all lights...