Actually ALL of the Duramax 3500's, unless modified by the owner, have 3.73 gears. Sooo, that means that the Dmax 3500's can tow max GCWR with 3.73's, and I suspect there are those out there way over max GVW rating towing with 3.73's.
Probably would be a good idea to fill in your signature so we get an idea of what you're dealing with when asking a question. It'll help us give you better answers.
BTW, I tow a 9500lb (dry) 5ver with 3.73s not sweat.....:thumbsup:
JP