Finally found and fixed the leak. Earlier last week we moved the FFM and saw that it wasn't the source of the leak. We also tried to look underneath the intake with a mirror and an endoscope, but found nothing. On Thursday, I ran the engine for a bit and then pulled off the intake, and then looked around, but still didn't find anything conclusive. I wasn't sure I saw the weep hole, but one of the injector lines looked a bit suspect.
On Saturday, we finally ran the engine, and I could immediately see there was diesel spurting out from the injector line. On closer examination, the line was quite loose, and the nut holding it could be tightened by hand for almost one full turn before we had to switch to tools. We completed assembly yesterday, and had the car running for half an hour, with nary a drop on the ground. It also responded quite a lot better to throttle input and ran perfectly well.
Now I only need to adjust the rear brakes and fix the front grille and I can take it back for inspection...