Problem is: someone over tightened it and bent the flanges. Straighten the flanges, grind/sand them flat as mentioned above. A far faster and far more dangerous method than block sanding is use a grinder with new wheel on it. But you have to be flat- so when you can find a way to clamp them together lightly on both sides of the disk it works well.
Out here we have a supplier called PacMech (Pacific Mechanical), they sell every kind of gasketing material I have ever seen. If you could get the metal material gasket thats thinker- that would be an easy fix. You just have to cut it out of sheet material. Some of the gasket houses you can pay an extra $10 and they cut out the gasket for ya.