Most diesels can handle starting fluid. Not idi diesels with glow plugs. The high pressure explosion can crack the inconel precups, and crack the piston top. The starting fluid crystalizes the surface of the glow plugs and ruins them.
If you are spraying it, and the glow plugs heat it with the intake valve open and you use a little bit too much it will back flash to you. -Same thing happens to air heaters like dodge cummins- look on youtube for videos of guys burning themselves.- there is one where it lit the guy on fire and blew up the can in his hand. He was making a video on how to do it right- posted the video and shows his hand missing 2 fingers after the surgery- posted as a cautionary tell.
When i said dont do it unless an emergency, I mean an emergency like people dying. Not oh no, I'm late for work, an emergency like i will stop traffic and have a stranger drive me there if it doesnt start. 911 stuff.
This is a light duty engine that happens to use diesel fuel. It is nothing like a detroit or cat semi engine.
Cycling the key does a similar action to the added relay I posted, except the glow plug relay can shut off by itself. The relay attachment give you full control. Doing either of these with the older style glow plugs will cause them to swell, or maybe even break off. If they swell, buy the tool from Leroy - it will save your tail feathers. If they break off you will get to look at at least damaged pistons, maybe valve damage, even saw cylinder wall damage a couple times too that made the block worthless.
Besides the relay and glowplugs,
2 strong batteries. New oversized cables. Power master 9052 starter. Keep fuel filter changed regular. Test your injectors, rebuild or replace as needed. 100,000 mile is time for quality ones, ever buy ebay or junk ones. If you buy them get only brand new Bosch or delphi injectors from a known good supplier- there are several rip off companies out there to avoid
A1, ss diesel, preditor, are a few rip off outfits that come to mind. Asking here and reading all the stickies will save you lots of time and money.
Most of us here, myself included are a frugal bunch. Not cheap, pizza tonight was 1 hour and the delivery guy still got a tip. But frugal. Upgrading these components cost a bit in the beginning, but pay for themselves in the long haul.