If you got an aftermarket ecm it should have come with the instructions. Been a long time but Heath tried starting the engine and left the key on for 1/2 hour, tried starting it again after the security light went out and waited for a while with key on before trying again when it accepted the commands. Bill Heath also said he could use the tech 2 to force acceptance but at some point in the future it could forget the command to start. I believe the koko procedure is the way to do it but wait for others to comment on that.