As already mentioned a battery maintainer is the best way to deal with a battery not in regular use and the solar panel style ones work well and no need to be close to an outlet. I regularly install small solar maintainers on boats and RV's with great results.
If you are not going to maintain then yes a VRLA style battery (AGM/Gel) fairs way better than a regular flooded under self discharge and is one of their strong selling points. I have left AGM/Gels sat around fully charged upon leaving for months at a time with no issues. Which ones well seems to me that this discussion then becomes complex because it also becomes an issue of how they fare during use which sort of becomes a which oil discussion. In the automotive world the VRLA of choice is an AGM as it is more of a starter battery than a gel type, in the starter style I have used and installed with good results both optima and orbital. Though I am now a wee bit concerned with the whole issue of optima going to Mexico, I will more than likely go with orbital from now on.
Note though self discharge is relative to temperature and a fully charged regular flooded will fare better in the winter time usually with no real harm done if left for a month or so open circuit with clean tops. They also must be charged to avoid freezing issues as well as to ensure a good capacity to withstand self-discharge. IIRC a 80% discharged flooded will freeze at around 15 - 20 F, 50% discharged around -15 F whereas a charged one will freeze at -95 F
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Nobby