What you could do is tap into the output of the 5amp Glo fuse. This is a source from the glo controller output that goes to the lamp in the instrument panel and feedback to the PCM.
EDIT: you want both OPS power and Glo Power to go to the relay coil, brain fart before.
Or you can tap into the glo output line anywhere. Unfortunately, our controllers did not include the relay pin, it was replaced by PCM trigger input.
That PCM trigger input is also 12V to trigger the Glo, which goes to pin B of the controller. But I would use the controller output, instead of drawing more current from the PCM.